I had promised in a past post that I would tell about the love story with my wife, Kiyomi. Well, the following is the promise kept.
I went on a missions trip to Joetsu, Japan, in June 2005. I spent one day with the oldest of the son of the missionary that we came to assist. We played video games at the local arcade, and rode bikes everywhere in the city. He had told me about a local restaurant that had an antique shop in its basement. He told me that I could pick up a yukata (a traditional Japanese shirt worn during the summer) for 500 yen ($5.50 USD). I did not have any traditional Japanese clothing, so I thought that this would be a great chance to pick up one for a very cheap price.
We were met by one of the waitresses at the restaurant who was named Kiyomi. Kiyomi shook my hand. I felt an instant attraction for her. She helped us around the antique shop in the basement. The owner said that he did not have any yukatas, but he was willing to sell me a men's winter kimono for 1,000 yen ($10.10 USD). It was a little small but did suffice.
For the rest of the trip, Kiyomi and spoke to each other on and off. She had been coming to English classes held by the missionary and his wife at their church. Kiyomi and another waitress from the restaurant came to the church on our last day in Joetsu to give us a very simple version of the Japanese tea ceremony. The type of green tea used in the ceremony was very bitter. Thank God for the sweets that were part of the ceremony, because they had helped to kill the taste.
Here is the first picture that we took together:

After I returned to the States, Kiyomi and I exchanged emails almost everyday. I did not want to get involved in a lost distance dating relationship because I had been hurt on several in the past. One of my pastors in my church and the missionary in Joetsu encouraged me to continue sending emails to Kiyomi with Bible verses. (Kiyomi was not a Christian at this time, but she was interested in God and the Bible.) We did this for over a year.
Kiyomi came to my town, in Illinois, in late December 2006, to visit all of the people who came on the mission trip. During her time with some Japanese Christian women at a Christian conference in Indianapolis, she gave her heart to Jesus. She was baptized in the Holy Spirit the next day. She got water baptized shortly after the New Year in 2007. She returned to Japan a few days later.
Kiyomi and I continued emailing each other. I would send her notes from my pastor's messages every week. I refrained from telling her my feelings for her because I wanted her to concentrate on her relationship with Christ first. I asked in my heart that if He wanted Kiyomi and me to enter into a dating relationship that He would give us the best time to start it.
Kiyomi returned to Illinois in April 2008. I had shared with one of my pastors about my feelings for Kiyomi and that I just did not know what to do with them. (I had been very hesitant about entering into any relationships because I had been hurt very badly in the past.) My pastor stated that I should just ask Kiyomi to date me. (I had been telling him about my feelings for Kiyomi since I had returned from the missions trip in 2005. He had always been praying for me and encouraging me on waiting for the Lord's perfect time in starting a relationship.) Another pastor in my church had asked Kiyomi how she felt for me. She told him that she cared for me to and that she would not mind dating me. I had asked Kiyomi to date me at a nice Chinese restaurant close to my university. She said yes. I told her that we would not be official until I got the blessing her both of her parents. (I had already received the blessing from my father a few days earlier.) Another Japanese friend of mine translated my request to date Kiyomi into Japanese.
Kiyomi went straight to her parents' home after she had returned to her hometown. Her parents gave their blessing to the relationship a week later.
I moved to Ulsan, South Korea, after I had completed my masters degree, in August 2008. I had been employed by the city government to work in a local public elementary school there as an Guest English Teacher. I was assisted in my teaching duties by a Korean English teacher. God blessed me with an awesome church behind my apartment who helped me to adjust to Korean life. Kiyomi came to visit me for four days during my 37th birthday there.
Here is a picture of us sitting in the church dining room after the morning service:
Kiyomi had moved to Niigata, Japan, in June 2008. I went there during Christmastime to meet with her parents and ask them for her hand in marriage. They gave their permission after I had returned to Korea.
I came to Niigata, Japan on September 1 of this year. Kiyomi and I got married on October 10 at Grace Chapel, in Niigata.
My Princess and Me

